I really want to move.



I posted in passing about the difficulty of trying to find a new apartment in the city and how much more difficult this dog discrimination stuff makes it. It's really fucking hard.

This is actually the longest time Chris and I have lived in one place together, which it makes it a little sentimental to leave. But lets be real, this apartment is kind of gross especially when the city is warm. The only nice thing about winter is it seems to make the city less smelly and keeps all the pests hidden.

If i'm being honest the amount of other life in this apartment that doesn't pay rent makes me so disgusted, I like want to cry and run home to Florida.
To get really into it, I've killed three giant fucking roaches today.  Luckily the dogs help out, Nadia has really refined her hunting skills. She can track a roach and catch a fly midair without destroying anything in the apartment. Charlie just gets out of her way, not to helpful. The good about this is I don't think they actually live in the apartment but since we live off the hallway from hell they are just getting in through the door.

I even allow Chad the giant spider to live above the shower because I think he's helping out too.
I really want out. Is this normal for NYC for above ground apartments or is this just a basement thing. Someone please give me some hope.

We do have some possible studio options opening up in the area and the idea of one space is kind of exciting, even if it's slightly smaller.  We are already used to having a loft bed and I kind of love being so far off the ground.

I saw this crazy awesome loft/ room last night that I really want to build one if we get a studio.
I love the idea that we could turn the under room into a little practice room and maybe we could do some soundproofing and make a little studio under the bed.
Plus all the storage on the front and sides you could have.






What do you think?

-bea

Yesterday was Chris and my 3rd wedding anniversary, also known as the leather anniversary.

I don't know the origin for these anniversaries ( nor do I care enough to research it) but with what I experienced so far I would say it deals with the stability/strength of the relationship?
First year is paper, which is delicate and easy to tear and should be treaded with caution?
The first year was hard as shit , honeymoon period my ass, but it's worth it... work through it!
Second year is cotton, uhh? you can breathe a little more you're both stronger and more comfortable.
Third - leather, I haven't obviously gotten through it yet but the relationship feels stronger than ever. We are way more open now, communication is good, and things aren't always taken so personally( we developed a thicker skin?).
Plus, leather is pretty bad ass and we're also pretty bad ass for getting through everything thus far?
It's a bit of stretch, but i'm making this work.

Not sure where my theory goes from here because I think next year is fruit? Not sure how to interpret that or how to make it fit my theory.

If you have been married over 4 years what did fruit anniversary mean to you?

Overall, yesterday was really nice. We both took the day off and decided to take a super long walk. We walked like four miles down manhattan from the 180's to like 90th street stopping if we saw something interesting. It was pretty perfect, no stress and no schedule just walking, talking, and exploring the city. The day was going really well and we ended it with a X-files marathon, because what is more romantic then the X-files, and I ended up getting a fucking panic attack.
Luckily Chris is understanding and supportive because I am probably the most annoying person ever when this happens.

It's also like still happening, I woke up still in this state.

I have never had one not go away overnight, so this is weird and stressful.  I get dizzy and tingly, it's hard to breathe, it feels like theres something in my throat that I can't get out, and I feel like my body and mind are disconnected like I'm dreaming or watching myself live?
It also feels like it's getting worse as I get older because now I get headaches and nausea on top of everything else. The worst is that it always comes out of nowhere, unprovoked and fierce.
I would understand it if I am freaking out over something but like we were chilling.
I was working on my needlepoint (perfecting my cats) and we were marathoning one of our favorite shows. Also we were enjoying our anniversary... c'mon body get it together.

The first time I was 16 and watching a movie, literally thought I was dying or going to have a heart attack. It ended up happening everyday for like a month and my parents eventually took me to get my heart checked out and I had an MRI and everything came back fine. It's been 10 years of this and it has never gotten easier.

Every time it happens I still worry I am going to die. I obsessively check my nails to make sure they aren't going purple from lack of oxygen, I kind of pace around and check my pupils too much to see if they are dilated, and I constantly check my pulse ... I can't even ready my pulse and who knows if your nails would even turn purple or what eyes have to do with anything, it just makes me feel better.
I am so annoying to be around.

I generally know I am fine and i'll get over it soon,  but it simultaneously feels like everything is wrong and different then usual. I feel like I say that every time I have one," But this time its different! How do you know I'll get through it!?".

Does anyone else go through this? I'd love to chat.

This post went on a weird tangent.
The point was to say that the past three years have been amazing.
I couldn't be happier about marrying Chris it is one of the best decisions I have ever made.
He is my best friend (like for real, not just saying it) and he inspires to be better and push myself to work harder than I want to.
Not everyday is perfect but it is always worth it. He is worth it.
I am excited to grow old together, to take many more road trips and non road related trips, to have a successful duo and play music together forever, and possibly even raising a family together at some point.

I am also excited to see who we become in the future. Only three years in and I already feel like we are so different then we were back then.







-bea

Happy Summer!

How was your weekend? I feel like I did nothing I planned on actually doing this weekend but it was still wonderful it was a big weekend of changing plans.

I didn't make it to the Mermaid Parade but Chris and I did get to hang out with some great friends on Saturday. We also ended up not going to the Bang on a Can Marathon but we did play two great sets on Sunday and have a nice relaxing movie night at home. Overall a great jump into summer.

I decided to make you a summer mixtape/playlist for relaxing by the pool/beach or on your hot and steamy train rides around the city.

Friday! The weekend is here!



I am actually pretty excited about this weekend. Chris and I are performing as part of Make Music New York at studio 26 in the lower easy side at 2pm on Sunday, come if your in town! We will also be hanging out at the Bang on a Can Marathon all day around our performance.  I went to the marathon last year but I didn't get to see any of it because I was working outside. I am really stoked to see all the groups this year.
And the Mermaid Parade is Saturday! I definitely want to check it out. We'll see if I make it out, coney island is such a trek.

Such an exciting weekend! What are your plans?

Here are some randoms from this week...

// The dogs love having company over! (Especially when food is involved) They have become the most amazing and well behaved dogs in their older age. But they still get a little excited outside when they see other dogs. Charlie is a happy barker and Nadia is a happy jumper the two together seem to terrify everyone around us. Old habits die hard.

//  I got a job! I will be working at Lincoln Center this summer for Lincoln Center out of Doors. It's temporary but I am excited.

// These overnight oats recipes. I had been making  greek yogurt & chia seed overnight oats for a while and am excited to try more out recipes.

// NYC hates pitbulls. Even if the building will allow dogs up to 50 pounds, they will deny you based on your dogs appearance. They won't even meet the dog to determine its temperament. #hateful

// If you couldn't tell from the last comment, we are trying to move out of our current apartment. it has been a great two years in our cozy basement and it's a little sad to think of leaving it, but I'm ready for bigger and better things, like a street view and windows! but really these pitbull restrictions are insane.

// Taystee <3

//my hair is long enough to do a half bun, which at this length is more of a man bun but it works!



// This article about something that happened in the game of thrones finale. Don't read if you haven't watched. Why would you do that to yourself?

Happy Weekend!

-Bea

Happy Friday! It has been such an awesome week. But I am ready and excited for the weekend.
What are you up to this weekend? I have no official plans but the past few days have been so sunny and hot. I'm hoping I can get out and have a picnic, a long walk down Manhattan or even walk across a bridge, or possibly head out for another beach day. One where I could actually lay out in the sun for a bit would be great.  In the spirit of the weekend and a few hours left of work I wanted to share a few fun links that I have used to lower my productivity this week.

Science!

THIS VIDEO

In honor of this, try these recipes 1 -  2 -  3 !

Make this happen :0

If you are NYC tomorrow, bubble battle is happening!

Loving this dress and these sandals (if they ever get them in my size).

This baby elephant video

What did I do before buzzfeed

Hope you have a great weekend!

-Bea

P.S. // Anyone else watching Orange is the New Black ? I'm already on episode 4 >.< so good

On April 11th Chris and I had the opportunity to perform in the new Dr. Phillips Center for Performing Arts in Orlando Fl.